He says he loves me but won’t kiss me
Dear Molly,
I’ve been seeing a guy on/off for about 4 years now. (Both 22) We were instantly attracted the day we met 6 yrs ago at work and that day he asked me out but I said no, don’t get me wrong I should have, I had butterflies in my stomach but did not know anything about the guy and was scared.
We used to flirt like crazy with each other until he lost his job and I didn’t see him for a year. We bumped into each other and things started happening despite the fact he was with someone. It ended with them but then I went to university so we both thought a relationship would be hard so we didn’t get together.
He Says He Loves Me But Won’t Make a Commitment
Dear Dr. Love,
I have been dating a commitment phobic individual off and on for over a year and as can be expected, the relationship has been a roller coaster ride.
He has always returned with humble apologies and I have always forgiven. I really like him, enjoy his wit, humor, and he is very intelligent. However things have recently gotten very sticky. A mutual friend has caused a major rift between the two of us, that I do not know if it can be crossed.
My Girlfriend Puts me Down - Should I Stay in this Relationship?
Dear Molly,
Hi I need advice. I am in a relationship with a woman from Russia.
We live together in Illinois now.
Some times I find her abrupt, but the real problem is that she is often raising her eyebrows and saying ‘Brian, why do you do this?’ or ‘why do you do that?’
Then she gives me an expression that looks like - “how stupid can you get?”
If I say ‘ stop’ she will either go over the top in making it up to me or get angry for a while.
Unfortunately when all this happens, I feel very sick to my stomach and wonder what it is all about.
I think in her own way she loves me.
When she is treating me good I feel good, but there are just such extremes.
Call me “Brian”
There is an excellent book you can read called “The Verbally Abusive Relationship” by Patricia Evans.
Sincerely, Dr. Love
