Are all boys stupid, or just the cute ones?
Q. Are all boys stupid, or just the cute ones?
How should I act with my old boyfriend at our 20 year class reunion?
Q. I have a 20 year reunion coming up. I know my old boyfriend is going to be there with his wife and kids and I don’t know what to do. I want him to see me. I still look better than half the girls in my class. But I don’t want to start any problems for his family. What do you suggest?
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I Kissed Him - He Hasn’t Called - What Do I Do?
Q: On Valentine’s Day, I kissed my favorite boy in the world. He hasn’t called me and I’m wondering what I should do.
A: Well, four days have passed since Valentine’s Day, so my guess is that you haven’t waited for my wise answer about what to “do!” Your question is excellent, however, and hopefully you have had the insight to “do” what I’m about to say.
Are you ready? ….. NOTHING!
You should go about your business as if you could care less about this boy! You have plenty of other people and activities in your life demanding your time and attention.
If this boy was not able to figure out on his own that you’re a girl he wants to spend time with, you can’t make him! He absolutely must figure it out on his own!
There is nothing less attractive than a needy girl!!! People in general are intrigued by others who are joyful and fun on their own, men/boys find this especially attractive.
Now I’m going to get on my soap box. Girls should not be pursuing boys. I can’t emphasize this enough. Unfortunately, womens’ lib and the sexual revolution have given girls and women the idea that it can all be up to us.
Don’t get me wrong, it can, however, it is not in the natural order of things. Please let men be men, be yourself, enjoy yourself; men will notice.
Men need to make the first move, women should receive the overture with gratitude. To provide a little incentive, a woman can make it clear to a man that she is interested in him by making eye contact, smiling, touching him casually, enjoying his jokes, etc.
Men, if you’re not getting these cues, she’s probably not interested. If you are, don’t be a chump! Man up and ask her out!
BOTTOM LINE:
- If he’s interested, he’ll let you know. If he’s not there’s nothing you can do about it!
- Go out and have fun, be yourself, be grateful for all that is! The right one will be interested.
He says he loves me but won’t kiss me
Dear Molly,
I’ve been seeing a guy on/off for about 4 years now. (Both 22) We were instantly attracted the day we met 6 yrs ago at work and that day he asked me out but I said no, don’t get me wrong I should have, I had butterflies in my stomach but did not know anything about the guy and was scared.
We used to flirt like crazy with each other until he lost his job and I didn’t see him for a year. We bumped into each other and things started happening despite the fact he was with someone. It ended with them but then I went to university so we both thought a relationship would be hard so we didn’t get together.
