What if my boyfriend was not truthful about being ok with my attractivness to other women?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile. I told him when we met that I think girls are hot. He says he’s okay with me making out with other women, but I don’t believe him. I know he’s going to get mad and I don’t want to hurt him. What should I do?
A. Wouldn’t it be nice if on a date there were only two people, you and him? Instead there are 6 people on the date!!! There are him, the guy he thinks you want him to be, and the guy you think he is. Then there are you, the girl he thinks you are, and the girl you think he wants you to be. Confusing, isn’t it? A couple can cut to the chase so much quicker without having to sort out all of those extra people!
So to answer your question, if he was inauthentic and gets hurt because of it, that is not your fault. It’s not your fault if he told you what he thought you wanted to hear rather than the truth.
If you are in a relationship with a person, man or woman, it is respectful and honorable to be faithful to one another. Though you may fantasize about all sorts of acts with others while in a relationship, it is your partner’s trust and your respect for him that should prevent you from acting on your whims.
BOTTOM LINE:
- If he didn’t tell you the truth, it’s not your fault.
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